If you’re not happy in your relationship, it affects your mind, body, and soul. Here are four questions you can ask yourself to get started in thinking about your future when you are deciding to end a relationship.
1. Am I staying because I don’t want to be alone?
We always think that it’s this person or nothing. That’s just not the case. The other possibilities are unknown and scary but definitely not nothing.
2. I am beating myself up?
Do you feel like you failed? Making a conscious decision to leave a relationship, or to stay, doesn’t mean failure. Stop judging yourself because that just makes this situation a whole lot harder.
3. Am I afraid of what other people think?
If people react badly to you breaking up with someone that they love, it’s more about their emotional issues than it is about you. You can’t change people so don’t worry too much.
4. Are there power issues?
This could be very subtle or outwardly violent. You want to get yourself some support so you could see the situation in a different way.
I hope this video on Deciding To End A Relationship serves you in finding hope. I have tons of videos on how to overcome fear and be happy. Subscribe and keep watching.
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