How to repair family relationships is the most frequent question that comes up in requests for relationship advice and in relationship counseling. This video tells you how I helped a father and adult daughter feel safe and confident enough to speak their minds to the mother without having to regret and atone for expressing their feelings when she punished them by withdrawing, getting sick and guilting them into taking care of her.
When the father and daughter acted out of guilt, the mother had all the power and the other two had none. Their anger escalated into fights which caused family friction and family problems that eroded the foundation of their relationships. They had no idea how to repair family relationships or solve the relationship problems that got worse with time. Due to their fear of talking it out, the father and daughter walked on egg shells, censored everything they said while seething with rage about having to give into the power struggles that got stirred up.
This family was trapped in taking care of one another via guilt that led to hate, anger and resentment. Does that remind you of your relationship problems? Have you tried many ways to repair your family problems without success? Then watch this video and learn about the ways to make up after fights so that you get the relationship help you need to save your family relationships.
You can get more help on family conflict at:
http://LosAngelesWestsidetherapy.com/conflict/fighting-and-making up
You can also watch these videos for more help with repairing family relationships:
How to share what’s going on with you so it gets through to your loved ones
How to communicate without fear of upsetting loved ones
Solving the hurt of family problems
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FT_F6nyfH6Q&feature=youtu.be