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How To Handle A Relationship With A Busy Man | The Secret To Dating A Busy Guy
How to handle a relationship with a really busy man and not feel undervalued and ignored along the way.
My name is coach Natalie and I’m a relationship coach and this is Happily Committed. Happily Committed is a movement that me and my amazing partner Coach Adrian started to help people around the world feel fulfilled in their relationships, to help them stay Happily Committed to the person that they love the very most. But whether you’ve been in a short term relationship or a long term relationship insecurities are pesky little things that end up chipping at the stability the two of you have created.
When we’re dating busy men we often wonder why they’re not spending as much time with us. I want to use this video as an opportunity to share with you a tip that I think might be really helpful for you. Women trying to handle dating a mega busy man, as women or nurtures or nesters, we want to build a bond, we want to build a nest, we want to build commitment with our partner. It’s how we are designed, but in a world with so many expectations, in a world with so many commitments, a lot of men prioritize their careers, a lot of men prioritize guys night, a lot of men prioritize their independence and that is something that can really get under our skin and on our nerves.
So the number one way to handle a really busy man is by getting really busy yourself. This isn’t a game, it’s not a manipulative tactic, it’s as simple as this: the more time you have to waste, the more time you want to spend with him. Get busy. Now is the time for you to build a bucket list. Make a list for yourself that you can commit to, that is going to fill your time, that it’s going to challenge you, that it’s going to make you feel fulfilled. Here’s a secret: confidence comes from accomplishment. The more things you do, the better you feel. I see it happen every single day with my clients. So if right now you have low self-esteem, lack of confidence because your boyfriend or husband is too damn busy, you can get more confident just by doing a few more things. Make a list of short, medium, long term goals, things that you can achieve and commit to. Get to know yourself, experiment and explore who it is you are and what you’re capable of and before you know it that clock that right now ticks really slow will fly by. Time will fly by as long as you’re busy and before you know it it’s 8 p.m. and look who just walked in the door and you didn’t even realize it. Your husband, your boyfriend, that busy man who’s too busy all of a sudden isn’t so busy anymore because you’re busier now. If you have nothing to do and he has a lot to do this is what we’re looking at. If you get busier this is what we’re looking at. This is what we’re looking at and now all of a sudden you’re equals, you are less demanding of his time, and all of a sudden you’re that cool girlfriend, that cool wife, that is engaged with who she is, who is attracted to herself, investing in herself, instead of calling, nagging, begging for her boyfriend ,her husband’s attention.
I know that this sounds counterintuitive. Don’t knock it till you try it. I invite you to make this bucket list. Give yourself things to work on, stay busy, and try for 30 days. Let’s see how you feel about your really busy boyfriend or husband or partner in 30 days when you are very busy. I am confident that it will make you confident, I’m confident that it’s going to make you feel accomplished and fulfilled and it’s going to make you less needy as a partner. As someone who has specialized in breakup recovery for so many years I know how easy it is to ruin a relationship. I know how easy it is for things to fall apart, but if you listen to this trick you will see how easy it is to stay together and how easy it is not to fall apart.
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